On the other hand, self-acceptance by those we dislike is often derided, to the detriment of finding solutions to these social problems instead of assigning bla

On the other hand, self-acceptance by those we dislike is often derided, to the detriment of finding solutions to these social problems instead of assigning blame. For myself, I've found suppressing my initial feelings of hostility toward people who promote incorrect ideas and providing an emotionally neutral answer is a more useful approach than derision, sarcasm, and other such behaviors.