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I'll be 50 this year. My experiences match the guy you're trying to call "very young." > When you get a little older and thoughts turn to finding someone to sp
by Tangurena 17y ago
I'll be 50 this year. My experiences match the guy you're trying to call "very young."
> When you get a little older and thoughts turn to finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, that sort of behavior just seems idiotic.
True, but then my office is full of people who've been divorced more than 3 times, and each spouse isn't significantly different from the preceeding one (or at least what the co-workers complain about). I don't think that most people are that logical when looking for a mate.
- JoachimSchipper 17y agoI find it interesting how, in discussions on this topic here and elsewhere, people tend to come down strongly on either side. Perhaps it's careful selection of company, perhaps it's different circumstances (none of us are really the type for one-night stands; note the boy-/girlfriend theme of my post!), or perhaps we read events to fit our theories about how dating works; but I've very rarely read someone arguing the middle ("being a jerk can work with some women, but many other women ultimately prefer a caring partner").