1. Messenger was the thing that ultimately locked me in (and most friends I suppose). It's just great software that everyone uses. Sure if I could get everyone

1. Messenger was the thing that ultimately locked me in (and most friends I suppose). It's just great software that everyone uses. Sure if I could get everyone to install telegram I totally would. But it's not happening. The way you phrased the question shows your not a big IMer. 2. Messenger + some Snapchat basically. I have only one friend that didn't make the switch to Facebook and keeps on using old IM software that used to be popular. Our friendship (wasn't a huge one) kind of died cause of it. 3. I don't think most people care. It's the way things are. Most also seem to be fairly aware of what's being exposed publicly and curate their behavior accordingly. I have to note I basically only have friends online. I'm 22, I kind of consider myself an early adopter. Just 4-5 years ago it was pretty weird to most, nowadays its slowly entering the mainstream. Younger people seem especially adept.