There's a middle ground between victimhood and equality. "To accuse others for one's own misfortunes is a sign of want of education. To accuse oneself shows th

There's a middle ground between victimhood and equality. "To accuse others for one's own misfortunes is a sign of want of education. To accuse oneself shows that one's education has begun. To accuse neither oneself nor others shows that one's education is complete." - Epictetus