Take a look at webfaction. They support apache+php as well as a host of other languages and frameworks (python+django, ruby+rails) by treating them as separate

Take a look at webfaction. They support apache+php as well as a host of other languages and frameworks (python+django, ruby+rails) by treating them as separate webapp (e.g. each php websites run their own apache instance under local linux user) and uses nginx as reverse proxy in front of those webapps.