>Now you are trying to rewrite the discussion Take it from someone that used to be very uncharitable in my interpretations of other's words and actions and was

>Now you are trying to rewrite the discussion Take it from someone that used to be very uncharitable in my interpretations of other's words and actions and was subsequently very argumentative and hostile: this is something you need to extract from yourself. The sooner you take that step the better because it takes a long time to retrain yourself out of bad habits. I'm still working on it and every time I fail I wish I'd started sooner. And even if you think I'm wrong, look at this way: You're not going to convince the person you're doing this to of your accusation and the other people reading it are going to ignore your argument and will just think you're being a hostile asshole. At that point you may as well be talking to yourself.