> I would also recommend some sort of stoic philosophy. I am a Christian, but there are plenty of other options: zen, greek, etc. I highly recommend getting so

> I would also recommend some sort of stoic philosophy. I am a Christian, but there are plenty of other options: zen, greek, etc. I highly recommend getting some of this advice to work for you. Having a different view on situation will definitely help "soften" the tough situation that you feel you are in. In a similar vein, I have consider what my salary/job has provided me, it gave me opportunity to experience other cultures, provided my family the financial resources to be secure and look after their health. Sometimes, I feel that I am being greedy if I chase for more money.