This has to do with 'modernization' in the sense that moving away from agrarian society has changed the dynamic of picking partners. It has also given ample fre

This has to do with 'modernization' in the sense that moving away from agrarian society has changed the dynamic of picking partners. It has also given ample freedom to pick and reject: the search space has broadened. When the search space is broadened, you end up thinking that 'more suitors' are out there.