> Most spoken communication is just trudging through the same well-established ruts, and throwing out the same sound-bite loops. You're hanging out with the wr

> Most spoken communication is just trudging through the same well-established ruts, and throwing out the same sound-bite loops. You're hanging out with the wrong people. Or something. > when subject X comes up, Bob is going to deploy his well-worn chestnut that you've heard 147 times before, You should stop hanging with Bob. There are other people out there who have real conversations about what's going on with them, their view of current events, their new ideas for what ought to be done, their new inspirations. . . I think the more likely and plausible explanation for why some people sound more prepared when speaking is because... they simply are better at it. They've practiced thinking through things, and are adept at putting thought into words. They've developed the think-and-communicate muscle, through lots and lots of practice, and now they can use that muscle with greater effectiveness than your average bear.