This is one of the many things that starcraft taught me. If my goal is to be better, there is little point in placing blame on anything except what is under my

This is one of the many things that starcraft taught me. If my goal is to be better, there is little point in placing blame on anything except what is under my control. If the opponent uses a strategy that seems unfair, then I should use that strategy. If they are using a high risk strategy, instead of saying that they are just gambling and being mad at them I should instead become better at finding out if they are going to take that path and deal with it. When it comes to improvement it is self defeating to say that anything out of your control was the problem. If that was in fact the case you shouldn't have let that situtation arise. If someone else is constantly causing a problem for you then you need to create a situation where they can't cause you problems anymore. Be that improve their abilities, isolate yourself from them or be good enough to solve that problem. Then again I never quite made it to the grandmasters league.