"She added: “I’ve also had a lot of terrified men message me things along the lines of, ‘Hey, I think I may have written you something sort of weird seven years

"She added: “I’ve also had a lot of terrified men message me things along the lines of, ‘Hey, I think I may have written you something sort of weird seven years ago. I’m really sorry about that.’ They’re scared I’m going to post their old messages.”" This is the biggest takeaway from the article for me, because it implies that HN user corysama's prediction that attaching a small amount of risk to the activity will have a significant impact on its incidence is essentially correct: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9836242 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9836242