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to clarify this comment: "pedophile" refers to someone with primary sexual attraction to children, whether or not they act on that attraction. Terms like "pre
by lotharbot 11y ago
to clarify this comment:
"pedophile" refers to someone with primary sexual attraction to children, whether or not they act on that attraction.
Terms like "predator", "molester", and "abuser" refer to someone who takes sexual actions against children.
There is overlap between the groups, but they're not identical. There are celibate pedophiles, and pedophiles who have ordinary adult relationships and keep themselves away from children. And there are predators who aren't specifically attracted to children, but instead are attracted to the power imbalance.
- jarfil 11y agoI get the feeling that some people want others to focus on the thought instead of the action, because their own actions are deplorable and they're just trying to convince everyone that their thoughts are pure.
- mjolk 11y agoYes, that's been the case since the predominant alma mater of Hacker News became either Wikipedia State or Reddit University. It's no longer a place for discourse, but instead for people trying to get internet points based on falling back to general, unoffensive platitudes.
- lotharbot 11y agoI think people draw the distinction because there's a huge difference between finding someone sexually attractive, and sexually assaulting them. (This applies to attraction to adults, not just children. "I find that person attractive" is very different from "I'm going to have sexual contact with that person without their consent".)