Men and women, on average, have dramatically different experiences in an open sexual marketplace: a few men are having quite a lot of sex, many women are having

Men and women, on average, have dramatically different experiences in an open sexual marketplace: a few men are having quite a lot of sex, many women are having a fair amount of sex, and quite a few men are having very little sex. This is consistent with an underlying ugly darwinian dynamic: a single dominant male can produce thousands of children, while a single female can produce perhaps ten. So for a few men and most women, the VF article is reasonably accurate.