Your advice is pretty off to be honest. I'm sure your grandfather was a wonderful man and I don't mean to belittle him by belittling your point, but what you're

Your advice is pretty off to be honest. I'm sure your grandfather was a wonderful man and I don't mean to belittle him by belittling your point, but what you're saying isn't helpful at all to OP. For example, I also got a job out of school, except mine was during the financial crisis at a company where I routinely was working 65-70 hours a week. My salary went to paying bills for my family, while I helped with my fathers foundering business because the economy was so terrible, and treatment for my mother who was having a breakdown caused by her having a serious debilitating illness. Eventually our house was foreclosed on. I remember packing all of our things into plastic trashbags the night that we were foreclosed on and waking up the next morning to go to work. I didn't have the luxury of stopping, even for an instant. We fought our way out, but it's not like I didn't come out of things unscathed. It's not as impressive as your grandfather and I certainly don't mean to compare myself to him, but everyone has a story to tell. You can't just wave one anecdote in someone's face to invalidate their experience. It's a nice meme to say that burnout's all in the mind, but you don't know anything about OP, and you certainly don't know anything about the mass majority of people who've had to balance immensely stressful work situations with immensely stressful personal situations. Maybe you should be more measured in your words instead of being presumptuous about OP's drive or character.