I find that more and more of these sort of "Write more politely" things are propping up. Inherently they come off as either too distant or too unsure of oneself

I find that more and more of these sort of "Write more politely" things are propping up. Inherently they come off as either too distant or too unsure of oneself by throwing a bunch of non-assertive statements ("hedge statements") or speaking in a way nobody would actually speak. Combined with training sets always being incomplete and human nuance being something extremely difficult to teach, it always returns to "use your best judgement". I feel like maybe I just "don't get it". At least I can have fun playing a game of "how rude can I be while still getting a polite score". >I think your mother would have had a better life if she had swallowed you." Polite: 77/100