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So the passive aggressive bullying in this thread for a fairly polite "not interested in this merge" can be the result. https://github.com/joyent/libuv/pull/101

So the passive aggressive bullying in this thread for a fairly polite "not interested in this merge" can be the result. https://github.com/joyent/libuv/pull/1015 https://github.com/joyent/libuv/pull/1015 Yes the problem is a little general than that. "SJW" are not seeing the problem with behaviour they have, that it can be experienced as exclusive behaviour by those who don't have the appropriate cultural context.

omginternets 11y ago
Oh yes. I'm familiar with that pull-request, but there's no point in being aggressive and combative first. Cross that bridge when you get there.
- JanneVee 11y ago
  I'm not planning with being combative about it. If it ever happens to me I'll just throw up my hands and walk away. I really love creating software and it is big part of my life. But I will never personally engage in this type of discussion after witnessing this happening in other places in other forms. Those who pick these fights will not see my point of view ever and it will be big waste of energy, which I'll rather spend on creating software. The reason I engage in this now is that I'm at the periphery only observing. It doesn't take that much of my time and energy to write a small commentary on it.
  - omginternets 11y ago
    Those who pick these fights will not see my point of view ever and it will be big waste of energy, which I'll rather spend on creating software. The reason I engage in this now is that I'm at the periphery only observing. It doesn't take that much of my time and energy to write a small commentary on it. I think we're actually in agreement -- I could have written those exact words. If it happens to me, I'll politely say that I'm not interested in making the change, and I'll be ready to shut down the project and move onto something else. Call me vindictive, but I don't particularly feel like yielding, either. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

omginternets 11y ago

Oh yes. I'm familiar with that pull-request, but there's no point in being aggressive and combative first. Cross that bridge when you get there.

JanneVee 11y ago
I'm not planning with being combative about it. If it ever happens to me I'll just throw up my hands and walk away. I really love creating software and it is big part of my life. But I will never personally engage in this type of discussion after witnessing this happening in other places in other forms. Those who pick these fights will not see my point of view ever and it will be big waste of energy, which I'll rather spend on creating software. The reason I engage in this now is that I'm at the periphery only observing. It doesn't take that much of my time and energy to write a small commentary on it.
- omginternets 11y ago
  Those who pick these fights will not see my point of view ever and it will be big waste of energy, which I'll rather spend on creating software. The reason I engage in this now is that I'm at the periphery only observing. It doesn't take that much of my time and energy to write a small commentary on it. I think we're actually in agreement -- I could have written those exact words. If it happens to me, I'll politely say that I'm not interested in making the change, and I'll be ready to shut down the project and move onto something else. Call me vindictive, but I don't particularly feel like yielding, either. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯