I know what you mean, having been through this journey and experienced the kind of thing you're talking about. But in the end, the calmness and tranquility that

I know what you mean, having been through this journey and experienced the kind of thing you're talking about. But in the end, the calmness and tranquility that comes from removing yourself from the drama and histrionics of the rest of the world is its own victory, and any "social penalty" turns out to be quite a gift.