> As long as I have enough good friends, I don't really care what anyone else thinks of me. That's the definition of desiring inclusion. If all of those frien

> As long as I have enough good friends, I don't really care what anyone else thinks of me. That's the definition of desiring inclusion. If all of those friends that accepted you were marketing majors and not computer scientists the odds you'd pursue computer science goes way down. Particularly if the computer scientists were the bullies. The point of the article is the computer (and in her case physics/science) culture was hostile to women, not inclusive.