From the article, so you can get a feel for the tone: "Nothing I said was new, it has all been said a thousand times before. The difference is that I am a man,"

From the article, so you can get a feel for the tone: "Nothing I said was new, it has all been said a thousand times before. The difference is that I am a man," he said. "Maybe by standing up and breaking the silence from the male side, I can help some more men begin to see the issues, and begin to listen to the women who have been speaking about this all along." It's a good article. Maybe you don't initially agree, but it is not at all inflammatory.