You obviously go into the fetal position and try and reason, hope he doesn't rape or kill you, your wife, kids. His/her life matters, so you can't take it even

You obviously go into the fetal position and try and reason, hope he doesn't rape or kill you, your wife, kids. His/her life matters, so you can't take it even if it means defending your own. (Obviously sarcasm, but that's the thought process of these people)