> I personally would feel privileged to be a part of a group that puts engineering excellence beyond anything, including my own hurt feelings. There would be be

> I personally would feel privileged to be a part of a group that puts engineering excellence beyond anything, including my own hurt feelings. There would be beauty for me in that emotional austerity and sheer directness. You should tolerate being part of a group that puts engineering excellence above offering any kind of camaraderie or emotional support. You should feel privileged to be a part of a group that achieves engineering excellence while still being a bunch of cool and friendly people.