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Jeez. They were just people, and we're people. Imagine you have a male friend and he tells you this story. "Hey man, I'm in this difficult situation, I got a wi
by cousin_it 11y ago
Jeez. They were just people, and we're people. Imagine you have a male friend and he tells you this story. "Hey man, I'm in this difficult situation, I got a wife and a baby but there's this other lady chasing me too. We tried to get away from her and went to a resort, but she came to the same resort! I love my wife but I think I love that lady too."
What would you do? I'd tell him to forget the love bullshit and cut that lady out of his life ASAP. I think that's the only sane decision. There's no point trying to be non-judgmental here.
- klodolph 11y agoI guess my issue here is that the comment doesn't really offer anything besides judgment. It's okay to be judgmental, but the comment didn't have any substance to it.
- cousin_it 11y agoYeah I see. It was actually intended as advice for people in similar situations. Giving an example from my life was just to lend some weight to the advice, otherwise people would say "it's not so easy and you don't know what you're talking about". Sorry if it came across as a humblebrag, I didn't realize that at the time.
- nemo44x 11y agoI agree, we're all people. We should all try our best to be good people but at various times we have all been weak, scummy, etc. The good person reflects on those times and tries to improve.