And then it's more a matter of degree than black/white. I dislike the yes/no framing of the question for that reason - it leads to people making slippery slope

And then it's more a matter of degree than black/white. I dislike the yes/no framing of the question for that reason - it leads to people making slippery slope fallacies left and right, instead of acknowledging that it is possible to be tone deaf without necessarily intending to.