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Everyone's ragging on this article, but it matches my experience exactly. I feel like I can't talk to anyone nowadays without fearing that little buzz in their
by Xcelerate 11y ago
Everyone's ragging on this article, but it matches my experience exactly. I feel like I can't talk to anyone nowadays without fearing that little buzz in their pocket, at which point they pull out their phone and start playing with it while I'm mid-sentence. And I'm not some grumpy "get off my lawn" old man; I'm barely 25 years old.
Friends say "but it was [such-and-such nonsense]. I had to check my phone!" Really, you had to? Your life depended on you checking that text? People get frustrated with me because my phone is dead all the time (and thus I don't text back immediately), but I hate feeling tethered to some device.
I notice an overwhelmingly huge difference in the quality of my conversations with people when their phone is not present in the room with them.
This isn't to say I'm anti-technology at all — I spend 10 hours a day programming. I just don't attempt to do it while conversing at the same time (nor could I; without uninterrupted focus, I make a lot of mistakes in my code).
- mixmastamyk 11y agoAgreed though I don't let it bother me much. I have a front row seat to the internet all day, so the last thing I want to do at lunch is futz with a phone.
- lfender6445 11y agoI feel the same - I have also found myself apologizing before hand if I absolutely must use my phone or answer a message quickly.
- daviross 11y agoThis seems like something of a selection bias issue. By the same token, I don't know that I've run into anyone lately who's checked their phones while talking with me. Not to say that it doesn't happen, of course, but you might need to find new people.