My wife and I are the same way. Giving up privacy and personal space in a relationship IS unhealthy. To feel that one has a right to search through one's spou

My wife and I are the same way. Giving up privacy and personal space in a relationship IS unhealthy. To feel that one has a right to search through one's spouses belongings is a sign of immaturity and insecurity. There's no way to have a healthy meaningful relationship with someone when one feels that way.