I really hope that someday there will be a good, curated and vetted ad-blocking list which will take into consideration how intrusive ads are. I don't want to

I really hope that someday there will be a good, curated and vetted ad-blocking list which will take into consideration how intrusive ads are. I don't want to block all of the ads since it is how the content producers get paid. But the current situation is really either/or. I don't seem to find any ad blocker that just removes unacceptable ads. Demanding ad networks to pay is plain extortion.