I've been told my quietness makes people uncomfortable I've been accused of being rude just for politely asking to reduce the volume (imagine playing music at

I've been told my quietness makes people uncomfortable I've been accused of being rude just for politely asking to reduce the volume (imagine playing music at full volume in a car, windows closed) - most people don't have any sense of how much noise pollution they are causing. Being quiet is just not possible for them or even making less noise. In my experience it takes so much effort to make them understand that avoiding such situations is a better option.