My mother always warned me to maintain focus or I will walk in front of a bus. Yet she denies to this day I have ADHD (would make her look bad???). After a life

My mother always warned me to maintain focus or I will walk in front of a bus. Yet she denies to this day I have ADHD (would make her look bad???). After a lifetime thus far of poor coordination, constantly losing things, awkward social interaction and rarely finishing projects, I've come to terms with it. ADHD is associated with risky driving, dangerous misuse of power tools, other 'short cut' behaviors that undermine safety of adhd people and those around them. It IS a public health issue for that reason yet awareness is low.