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I'm concerned by the dismissive comments in this thread (which at time of writing is all the top-level ones). What the author says would be consistent with the

I'm concerned by the dismissive comments in this thread (which at time of writing is all the top-level ones). What the author says would be consistent with the self-centered drama queen everyone is assuming the author is, but that's hardly the only interpretation of what she says. Is a little benefit of the doubt to much to ask? The pains of being single often come up here, and to my memory such articles usually receive a positive response. Perhaps it is no coincidence that they are usually from the male point of view?

Jtsummers 11y ago
She is he, the author is Tim Kreider.
- Sophistifunk 11y ago
  ... and if you've read his book, the problem most certainly is him - and he knows it.
yareally 11y ago
> "What the author says would be consistent with the self-centered drama queen everyone is assuming the author is, but that's hardly the only interpretation of what she says. Is a little benefit of the doubt to much to ask?" If you're referring to the author of the linked article, it's a guy. If I may ask, why did you jump to the conclusion it was written by a female? > "Tim Kreider is the author of “We Learn Nothing,” a collection of essays and cartoons, and the forthcoming essay collection, “I Wrote This Book Because I Love You.”