> You make your own bed and you're the one who has to sleep in it. This is a very American way of looking at the world. It's also deeply flawed. You have far

> You make your own bed and you're the one who has to sleep in it. This is a very American way of looking at the world. It's also deeply flawed. You have far less control over your own destiny than you think. For example, people who get cancer don't choose to. I find this kind of "fk 'em, throw 'em under a bus" mentality gross.