I don't think what you're saying is true re: mental incongruity. And I don't think your example of gay suicides proves it, as it's hard to know what is the cau

I don't think what you're saying is true re: mental incongruity. And I don't think your example of gay suicides proves it, as it's hard to know what is the cause (and many people will point out, and I would agree, that there are many other causes of gay suicides, e.g. that our culture is oppressive toward gay people).