When you expect problems from your interactions with someone ('frontal collision with popular opinions'), you tend to find them. This is the sort of belief tha

When you expect problems from your interactions with someone ('frontal collision with popular opinions'), you tend to find them. This is the sort of belief that can be self-reinforcing, almost like a "self-fulfilling prophecy." It's best to avoid things like speculation as to motives or intelligence of others. It only leads to mean words.