> Do you realize that you're calling irrelevant the core feature of many peoples' identity? As long as people are treated with a minimum level of civility and

> Do you realize that you're calling irrelevant the core feature of many peoples' identity? As long as people are treated with a minimum level of civility and not discriminated against for irrelevant personal characteristics, their "identities" are irrelevant. I don't want to know or care about the "identity" of most people I interact with, and I guarantee you they don't want to know or care about mine. We're all very busy.