This is basically my nightmare. Nothing is as personally terrifying to me then being restrained and medicated. I also worry about this kind of situation becaus

This is basically my nightmare. Nothing is as personally terrifying to me then being restrained and medicated. I also worry about this kind of situation because my wife is black and we live in a very nice house and both enjoy nice vehicles. Neither of us (both tech people) enjoy dressing up-so were often poorly dressed. And we're both absent minded so we've both left our keys inside or had to fiddle with our cars in the driveway. I worry about how different an interaction with a passing police person could be for us-for me, an offer of assistance with a lost key, for her arrest and detainment.