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Dont spill all the beans to your wife, she's gonna bring it up in a fight later one. ask me how i know.
by roflchoppa 11y ago
Dont spill all the beans to your wife, she's gonna bring it up in a fight later one. ask me how i know.
- igravious 11y agoDon't listen to this advice. Be honest. Don't ask me how I know.
- enneff 11y agoBe honest. I'm happy to answer questions as to why I believe this is good advice.
- igravious 11y agoOh I see. Sorry. I didn't mean it to come across like that. Just had a recent personal situation I'd rather not go into on a public forum that would have turned out a whole lot better if me and the truth were more in alignment, sad to say : / Anyway, one lie begets another. Just tell the truth, less cognitive overload, less trust issues. Easier said than done I know; we all want to save face, we all have our shame to hide.
- mcv 11y agoI'd say if you can't trust each other in a long term relationship, you have no business being in that relationship. You're in it to support each other. This is a situation where you need support.
- roflchoppa 11y agoI never said don't be honest, i just said don't spill all your beans. you'll see later what i mean.
- eru 11y agoIf that's the only thing you optimize for, you gonna have an even harder time if she catches you lying..
- tdsamardzhiev 11y agoAnd she will, sooner or later.