"doesn't matter in what manner was it spoken" It's frustrating when people say this over and over. It certainly matters when the way it was spoken was antagoni

"doesn't matter in what manner was it spoken" It's frustrating when people say this over and over. It certainly matters when the way it was spoken was antagonistic and rude. And I don't believe as this person states is an issue of cultural relativism, just a jerk wanting to be a jerk.