I'm 30, bald since I turned 21, married, divorced, one child, Software engineer like you. Best advice I can give you is to keep dating. Dont look for commitmen

I'm 30, bald since I turned 21, married, divorced, one child, Software engineer like you. Best advice I can give you is to keep dating. Dont look for commitment. You're too young. DO ask for second dates. Women expect you to ask. Only one in 100 will ask you, and half of those do it out of desperation. You don't want that. Make the first move and play the field. Have your midlife crisis in 12-15 years. It is statistically what you'll end up doing anyway.