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Concepts found in mindfulness and CBT can help with this. The idea is that thoughts influence emotion and physical responses, which then influences behaviour,
by jwdunne 11y ago
Concepts found in mindfulness and CBT can help with this.
The idea is that thoughts influence emotion and physical responses, which then influences behaviour, consequentially influencing outcomes.
With procrastination, you will think of a task that you are avoiding. This may create anxiety and a tightening in your stomach. This will then prevent you from taking action. The outcome of that is rationalisation thoughts such as "I've got loads of time on this" or "I'll just do it later", which then eases the emotional and physical responses, leading to you postponing the task and doing something else. This cycle will continue.
By being mindful of these thoughts and recording them, you can then begin to look at rational responses. So, for example, you might say "I'm not good enough" and then craft a written, rational response to it. You continue this until you have an uncertainty, where you can't be sure if it's a rational response. You then create a practical plan of behavioural experiment to test it. This may include doing a small part of the task and seeking feedback to see if you're on the right lines, as an example to not being sure if you have what it takes for the task.
Identifying these cycles and consciously taking steps to elimate them can probably do more than focus on any particular part of the cycle alone.
- delbel 11y agoCan you recommend any good resources or perhaps a book on beginning CBT? So far, CBT For Dummies (ironic title, I know), is what I am working from. That, and a handful of random youtube videos is what I've been trying to build my CBT knowledge from.
- jwdunne 11y agoFeeling Good by David Burns is a very good book. I've heard of studies that have shown it just as effective as medication for depression. The second chapter "Do Nothingness" has a chapter on procrastination specifically too. Achieve Your Potential with Positive Psychology also includes a good chapter on CBT. The book also includes other findings/techniques in psychology that can help improve mood, motivation, relationships, etc. It also starts out by smacking down the Law of Attraction, which isn't really effective - it's more like an emotional pyramid scheme. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy: Teach Yourself by Christine Wilding contains some good information too. Outside of CBT, Man's Search for Meaning, which defines logotherapy, is a damn useful book. Tim LeBon's book also includes information on this.
- jwdunne 11y agoTo clarify, Tim LeBon's book is the Achieve Your Potential book.