Personally, I think you are right. I don't think he deserves pity. Having said that, I have suffered greatly in my life by my own hand (without really knowing

Personally, I think you are right. I don't think he deserves pity. Having said that, I have suffered greatly in my life by my own hand (without really knowing it was me who was inflicting the pain). As stupid as it is, I don't think anyone deserves that suffering either. I hope he figures it out eventually.