> True equality is the use of singular they I find rigid rules for language to be Orwellian, and I've always found the singular 'they' to be at least as awkwar

> True equality is the use of singular they I find rigid rules for language to be Orwellian, and I've always found the singular 'they' to be at least as awkward as the gender-neutral 'he'. An alternate "true equality" would be to generously extend the benefit of the doubt to everyone. And to teach our children to be strong enough to deal with inaccurate pronouns, on occasion. I'd rather my daughter get her strength from better sources than offense and identity politics.