What's indisputable is that women get flooded with offers on dating sites. We agree there. Whether or not this means that women can more easily find successful

What's indisputable is that women get flooded with offers on dating sites. We agree there. Whether or not this means that women can more easily find successful and enjoyable dates and/or relationships on dating sites... is another story. An inbox full of unwanted advances from a bunch of strangers is not exactly a liberating experience, I wouldn't think. Certainly women I know don't think so. They clearly have a greater number of suitors to choose from, yes, but like you say - men tend to approach women in such great numbers that there's no way to know who's worth pursuing. How do you have a quality conversation with a stranger when 100 strangers are trying to talk to you simultaneously? To top it off, the stakes are a little higher for women. A woman is one mistake (or one instance of violated consent) away from getting pregnant. A woman is always one step away from being sexually assaulted. Obviously men can be victims too, but adult female-on-male sexual assault is vanishingly rare.