Assessing the truth of a claim by who says it is an unreliable guide, to tell what pjhyett has shown. Note: it's not "do what you like", but "do what you love"

Assessing the truth of a claim by who says it is an unreliable guide, to tell what pjhyett has shown. Note: it's not "do what you like", but "do what you love". It's not about pleasure, but meaning - to do what you believe is worthwhile and meaningful. It's a quest, a sacrifice. But also, in line with the article, there's the idea of "love is a verb", meaning that love is not a feeling, but it is what you actually do. To sacrifice for something, to do the actions of caring for something, comes first, and the feeling of love follows. Personally, I think you need a bit of both: a feeling of love and the actions of love.