>but my gut reaction is that we are angry at the wrong person People are mad in general because a lot of what AM promised wasn't really true. For example, its

>but my gut reaction is that we are angry at the wrong person People are mad in general because a lot of what AM promised wasn't really true. For example, its deletion of profiles which they charged for. Also not true seems to be the number of women on the site, which (although estimates very) seems to be very skewed and possibly bolstered with lots of fake profiles. With respect to the gross negligence, the original hack called out the company and even mentioned someone by name with an apologetic message--as if they knew that person was trying to stop the negligence on the inside but failed. (I doubt it was really bad negligence regardless. it is just more common for negligence to be the normal kind)