> So how would you write that message? I guess I wouldn't write it. When I read transfire's and roymurdock's comments, it's not obvious to me whose opinion is

> So how would you write that message? I guess I wouldn't write it. When I read transfire's and roymurdock's comments, it's not obvious to me whose opinion is more informed, or if the question even makes sense. Their experiences with women could just be different, and one ended up more cynical than the other. > Btw I don't think it's OK to remove your claim that roymurdock's response was "mean" Yeah. Sorry. I was just trying to make my own comment less mean :-/