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What does killing oneself with excesses and risky habits like drugs, alcohol, food, driving too fast, riding a bike/motorcycle without a helmet, etc. have to do

What does killing oneself with excesses and risky habits like drugs, alcohol, food, driving too fast, riding a bike/motorcycle without a helmet, etc. have to do with being gay? PS: I have a gay roommate, so clearly I must be a Republican, believe in God, conspiracies and lynchings. Stereotyping troll fail.

DasIch 11y ago
Gay men are often stereotyped to have a lot of changing sexual partners, which increases the risks for STIs. There are quite a few countries that forbid gay men from donating blood because of this.
- bmir-alum-007 11y ago
  Yeah, I've seen it on the questionnaires. That's just wrong and an obvious form of pervasive hate. I think the determination should be strictly related to risky behaviors like not using condoms or sharing needles. Also, the testing of the blood should be better (more frequent and comprehensive, esp. HIV and hepatitis families) and not simply arbitrarily throw the few people out that actually take the time to donate blood. EDIT: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2014/12/01/let-gay-men-donate-blood/ http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2014/12...
  - learc83 11y ago
    Men who have sex with men account for 81% of new HIV cases diagnosed each year. You basically eliminate half of possible HIV cases by eliminating only a few percent of the population. It's a legitimate public health issue, the same as banning people from countries with high HIV rates from donating blood. Whether an individual's rights to donate blood outweigh the risks to public health is open to debate, or whether the ban is effective is open to debate. However, the ban is driven by numbers not hate. I tend to think the ban isn't effective simply because it relies on self reporting.
    - bmir-alum-007 11y ago
      It's a form of discrimination equivalent to banning African Americans from donating blood. [0] Because a group "might" engage in risky behavior, it's unfair to assume all members do and are therefore treated differently than other groups. 0: http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-among-african-americans.htm http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-among-african-americans.htm
      - learc83 11y ago
        That is entirely possible. I'm not making a value judgement, I'm only stating the practical implications, and the reasons behind the ban. Society may decide that it's not worth the marginal increase (if any) in public safety to infringe on an individual's right to donate blood (if society decides this right exists). However there are a few practical differences. Banning African American's might mean less HIV infected blood, but it's not practical because African Americans make up 12% of the population, and they make up more than that for certain blood types. Furthermore banning heterosexual African Americans wouldn't reduce the amount of potentially infected blood nearly as much as banning men who have sex with men. If men who have sex with men had similar rates of new HIV infections to African Americans and made up 12% of the population, they likely wouldn't be banned either. If you ban men who have sex with men, you eliminate over 3/4 of newly acquired cases and only eliminate a few percent of the population. >Because a group "might" engage in risky behavior They don't ban people for being gay and possibly engaging in risky behavior. They ban men who have had sex with other men. This is classified as a high risk behavior (in respect to acquiring HIV). They also ban sex workers, because engaging in sex work is defined as a high risk behavior, not because they are making a value judgment against sex workers.
        mirimir 11y ago
        Maybe they also ought to ban men who have had sex with sex workers.
        learc83 11y ago
        I'm not sure if the FDA bans it, but the red cross says you shouldn't donate if you've patronized sex workers.
- learc83 11y ago
  The blood donation ban isn't because of the stereotype of changing partners. It's because men who have sex with men are much more likely to have HIV. [1] (81% of all newly diagnosed HIV cases are from men who have sex with men) Now whether the ban is effective or necessary is another debate, but it's a legitimate public health debate. Not just an attack on homosexuals driven by ignorance. [1] http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html
  - bmir-alum-007 11y ago
    The entire blood donation routine lifestyle/behaviors questionnaire of self-reporting is of little value because people can make mistakes or intentionally misrepresent their status. A far better approach is to test all donated blood, all the time for significant communicable, incurable diseases. If it's "too expensive," then newer/cheaper tests need to be developed.
    - learc83 11y ago
      All blood is tested for HIV and other infections diseases[1] The reason for the questionnaires is that a recent HIV infection won't always show up even with the best most sophisticated tests. So we do the best we can to screen out people who are most likely to have recently acquired HIV. Screening out IV drug users, men who have sex with men, sex workers, and people form countries with high rates of HIV, eliminates the vast majority of new HIV cases without eliminating a large percent of the population. Again, people can lie so self-reporting may not be worth it. You'd have to do a study to find out. And even if it is, the number of HIV infections prevented may be so low that it doesn't justify infringing on the rights of people to donate. But, that's the debate. [1] https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-risk/blood-transfusions-organ-donation/ https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-...
      - bmir-alum-007 11y ago
        There is no debate that a hateful double-standard (lifetime ban) is allowed to stand, the questionnaire can be essentially eliminated right now by more rigorous and comprehensive testing using modern lab processes. If the testing is up to standards, arbitrarily throwing out certain groups is a only shortcut which imposes hate systematically and normalizes it.
kbutler 11y ago
High risk lifestyle choices: https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/yet-another-study-confirms-gay-life-expectancy-20-years-shorter https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/yet-another-study-confirms... (Didn't read the article, just googled life expectancy gay vs. straight).
mirimir 11y ago
Being gay has nothing to do with high-risk behaviors. It's just that gays have been stereotyped as being promiscuous. But that was merely a sampling artifact. Highly promiscuous gays came out first. Indeed, being highly promiscuous was a political statement. But it's risky behavior, no matter what ones sexual preferences might be.

DasIch 11y ago

Gay men are often stereotyped to have a lot of changing sexual partners, which increases the risks for STIs. There are quite a few countries that forbid gay men from donating blood because of this.

bmir-alum-007 11y ago
Yeah, I've seen it on the questionnaires. That's just wrong and an obvious form of pervasive hate. I think the determination should be strictly related to risky behaviors like not using condoms or sharing needles. Also, the testing of the blood should be better (more frequent and comprehensive, esp. HIV and hepatitis families) and not simply arbitrarily throw the few people out that actually take the time to donate blood. EDIT: http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2014/12/01/let-gay-men-donate-blood/ http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-partisan/wp/2014/12...
- learc83 11y ago
  Men who have sex with men account for 81% of new HIV cases diagnosed each year. You basically eliminate half of possible HIV cases by eliminating only a few percent of the population. It's a legitimate public health issue, the same as banning people from countries with high HIV rates from donating blood. Whether an individual's rights to donate blood outweigh the risks to public health is open to debate, or whether the ban is effective is open to debate. However, the ban is driven by numbers not hate. I tend to think the ban isn't effective simply because it relies on self reporting.
  - bmir-alum-007 11y ago
    It's a form of discrimination equivalent to banning African Americans from donating blood. [0] Because a group "might" engage in risky behavior, it's unfair to assume all members do and are therefore treated differently than other groups. 0: http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-among-african-americans.htm http://www.avert.org/hiv-aids-among-african-americans.htm
    - learc83 11y ago
      That is entirely possible. I'm not making a value judgement, I'm only stating the practical implications, and the reasons behind the ban. Society may decide that it's not worth the marginal increase (if any) in public safety to infringe on an individual's right to donate blood (if society decides this right exists). However there are a few practical differences. Banning African American's might mean less HIV infected blood, but it's not practical because African Americans make up 12% of the population, and they make up more than that for certain blood types. Furthermore banning heterosexual African Americans wouldn't reduce the amount of potentially infected blood nearly as much as banning men who have sex with men. If men who have sex with men had similar rates of new HIV infections to African Americans and made up 12% of the population, they likely wouldn't be banned either. If you ban men who have sex with men, you eliminate over 3/4 of newly acquired cases and only eliminate a few percent of the population. >Because a group "might" engage in risky behavior They don't ban people for being gay and possibly engaging in risky behavior. They ban men who have had sex with other men. This is classified as a high risk behavior (in respect to acquiring HIV). They also ban sex workers, because engaging in sex work is defined as a high risk behavior, not because they are making a value judgment against sex workers.
      - mirimir 11y ago
        Maybe they also ought to ban men who have had sex with sex workers.
        learc83 11y ago
        I'm not sure if the FDA bans it, but the red cross says you shouldn't donate if you've patronized sex workers.
learc83 11y ago
The blood donation ban isn't because of the stereotype of changing partners. It's because men who have sex with men are much more likely to have HIV. [1] (81% of all newly diagnosed HIV cases are from men who have sex with men) Now whether the ban is effective or necessary is another debate, but it's a legitimate public health debate. Not just an attack on homosexuals driven by ignorance. [1] http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html
- bmir-alum-007 11y ago
  The entire blood donation routine lifestyle/behaviors questionnaire of self-reporting is of little value because people can make mistakes or intentionally misrepresent their status. A far better approach is to test all donated blood, all the time for significant communicable, incurable diseases. If it's "too expensive," then newer/cheaper tests need to be developed.
  - learc83 11y ago
    All blood is tested for HIV and other infections diseases[1] The reason for the questionnaires is that a recent HIV infection won't always show up even with the best most sophisticated tests. So we do the best we can to screen out people who are most likely to have recently acquired HIV. Screening out IV drug users, men who have sex with men, sex workers, and people form countries with high rates of HIV, eliminates the vast majority of new HIV cases without eliminating a large percent of the population. Again, people can lie so self-reporting may not be worth it. You'd have to do a study to find out. And even if it is, the number of HIV infections prevented may be so low that it doesn't justify infringing on the rights of people to donate. But, that's the debate. [1] https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-risk/blood-transfusions-organ-donation/ https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/reduce-your-...
    - bmir-alum-007 11y ago
      There is no debate that a hateful double-standard (lifetime ban) is allowed to stand, the questionnaire can be essentially eliminated right now by more rigorous and comprehensive testing using modern lab processes. If the testing is up to standards, arbitrarily throwing out certain groups is a only shortcut which imposes hate systematically and normalizes it.

kbutler 11y ago

High risk lifestyle choices: https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/yet-another-study-confirms-gay-life-expectancy-20-years-shorter https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/yet-another-study-confirms... (Didn't read the article, just googled life expectancy gay vs. straight).

mirimir 11y ago

Being gay has nothing to do with high-risk behaviors. It's just that gays have been stereotyped as being promiscuous. But that was merely a sampling artifact. Highly promiscuous gays came out first. Indeed, being highly promiscuous was a political statement. But it's risky behavior, no matter what ones sexual preferences might be.