what you describe is nice, but it lacks one thing I value a lot - freedom. of choice, of doing things just randomly and not planning every single thing and if s

what you describe is nice, but it lacks one thing I value a lot - freedom. of choice, of doing things just randomly and not planning every single thing and if something goes wrong, house of cards scenario might happen. freedom to meet a friend randomly not because now I have 1 hour I can afford to spend, but just because I have that hour any evening, any day, any year. not even going into things like longer travelling (ie min. 2 weeks), probably the most enlightening activity one can do to his mind. good for you (but only if rest of your family truly agrees), but to me, you describe pretty much a nightmare. the few guys (in non-founder area) that were so super-performant, and were godsend for their employers, were actually shitty partners, friends and fathers. Your health is a good indicator if your mind is not stretching things too far. And last thing - for most women, it doesn't count how much time you spend with them, it's the time without, lack of intimacy that moves them into distance in relationships.