That is claptrap. If it were a family story you'd have a family blog, and a separate family member would write about how they all pitched in to help you get ten

That is claptrap. If it were a family story you'd have a family blog, and a separate family member would write about how they all pitched in to help you get tenure. All of us know that the main takeawy of the story is about you. Your desperate disclaimers don't do anything.