> Its hard to feel too bad for the victims of these attacks That's only if you assume the victims are people with membership on the site. Think about the peop

> Its hard to feel too bad for the victims of these attacks That's only if you assume the victims are people with membership on the site. Think about the people that might have moved on, reconciled, or otherwise have already dealt with it. The people that might only be related. Imagine being the wife or husband of someone on this site, and having already dealt with this in private. Now suddenly it's out there for everyone to see. Your privacy has now been violated. Now you have to deal with this all over again. Imagine being the child of one of these members. Now you have to deal with the stigma of that hanging over your head. Being teased and mocked. I can't imagine not feeling bad for the victims of this attack, and I hope the perpetrators are caught. Their actions were reckless, and will hurt a lot of people who were not even involved.