A couple things: 1. Not all users of the site were married/in a relationship. 2. Signing up for a site like this isn't an admission of wanting to commit adult

A couple things: 1. Not all users of the site were married/in a relationship. 2. Signing up for a site like this isn't an admission of wanting to commit adultery. 3. There is/was no email verification, so anyone can sign up using any email address they choose. 4. Not all users of this site were in monogamous relationships i.e. swingers. I don't condone AM's business model, but there are many details that aren't known that simply having ones email in the database doesn't equate to actually hurting others.