And yours seems overly pessimistic. "I got burned by one man/woman/job so all men/women/jobs are the same. Why bother?" You bother because getting it right is

And yours seems overly pessimistic. "I got burned by one man/woman/job so all men/women/jobs are the same. Why bother?" You bother because getting it right is worth it, and when you do you won't regret having a few failed attempts getting there. It is a big world with a lot of positive opprotunities. Go find yours :)